What do people who are often online, but do not read and do not reply messages for days, then reply and as if everything is fine?

What do people who are often online, but do not read and do not reply messages for days, then reply and as if everything is fine?

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answers (4)

Answer 1
August, 2021

The habit of youth. They are like monkeys repeating this one after another. Well, the CMS is increased for one. It's all bullshit about being busy, if a person is constantly online, he is generally not busy in life.

Answer 2
August, 2021

A person is often displayed online if he simply has mobile Internet turned on and an application is running. For example, my notifications are disabled - they are annoying. Therefore, for half a day I simply do not see that I have new messages, being actually online. The same story with an open tab - I can listen to music and do my chores or watch a TV series, for example.
Of course, if I omit the option that I just don't want to answer.

Answer 3
August, 2021

Oh, I do that sometimes. True, I sometimes warn people that I will answer irregularly, or I apologize for the long silence, because I want to behave more or less politely, but sometimes I just don’t answer all day and continue as if nothing had happened. :)

The reason is difficult for me to describe in a clear way. It's just that sometimes I feel that I don't have the strength for the effort it takes to understand what is being said and come up with an answer. It seems to be a trifle, but it requires switching and concentration, and sometimes it is difficult for me to arbitrarily do this switching and concentration.

In the future, I would like to get rid of this feature, because unanswered correspondence depress me in the background, but so far I do not understand where it came from and what to do with it. :)

Answer 4
August, 2021

oh hello. it's me. I can tell you.

it sometimes happens that messages for a long time hang unread during the day, often this happens for several reasons:

  1. if communication with a person is not too important for me, however, due to banal politeness, I cannot help but answer, so I just postpone the moment until "I am bored with something, you can talk"

  2. if communication with a person, on the contrary, is very important. and I know for sure that in the near future I will not be able to answer fully, in detail, and as I want. so i leave a message hanging to reply when i have enough time

  3. sometimes people write about a case that I'm afraid to forget about, and the messages remain hanging until I can deal with this case.

  4. and, finally, corny, I can be busy, but for some reason I cannot close VK. for example, starting with the notorious dialogues with the group (I am a student) about some control, upcoming events, etc., and ending with the fact that I can just listen to music or watch some videos (although, of course, lately, I rather use This is third-party resources, because hanging +1 next to messages distracts me wildly)

a. and finally, the question was: "then they answer and as if everything is fine" .. well, because in my opinion everything is really normal, and if you every time make excuses, then what I wrote above will need to be rewritten every time.

I take this opportunity to apologize on behalf of everyone I'm talking about <3

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