The habit of youth. They are like monkeys repeating this one after another. Well, the CMS is increased for one. It's all bullshit about being busy, if a person is constantly online, he is generally not busy in life.
A person is often displayed online if he simply has mobile Internet turned on and an application is running. For example, my notifications are disabled - they are annoying. Therefore, for half a day I simply do not see that I have new messages, being actually online. The same story with an open tab - I can listen to music and do my chores or watch a TV series, for example. Of course, if I omit the option that I just don't want to answer.
Oh, I do that sometimes. True, I sometimes warn people that I will answer irregularly, or I apologize for the long silence, because I want to behave more or less politely, but sometimes I just don’t answer all day and continue as if nothing had happened. :)
The reason is difficult for me to describe in a clear way. It's just that sometimes I feel that I don't have the strength for the effort it takes to understand what is being said and come up with an answer. It seems to be a trifle, but it requires switching and concentration, and sometimes it is difficult for me to arbitrarily do this switching and concentration.
In the future, I would like to get rid of this feature, because unanswered correspondence depress me in the background, but so far I do not understand where it came from and what to do with it. :)
oh hello. it's me. I can tell you.
it sometimes happens that messages for a long time hang unread during the day, often this happens for several reasons:
if communication with a person is not too important for me, however, due to banal politeness, I cannot help but answer, so I just postpone the moment until "I am bored with something, you can talk"
if communication with a person, on the contrary, is very important. and I know for sure that in the near future I will not be able to answer fully, in detail, and as I want. so i leave a message hanging to reply when i have enough time
sometimes people write about a case that I'm afraid to forget about, and the messages remain hanging until I can deal with this case.
and, finally, corny, I can be busy, but for some reason I cannot close VK. for example, starting with the notorious dialogues with the group (I am a student) about some control, upcoming events, etc., and ending with the fact that I can just listen to music or watch some videos (although, of course, lately, I rather use This is third-party resources, because hanging +1 next to messages distracts me wildly)
a. and finally, the question was: "then they answer and as if everything is fine" .. well, because in my opinion everything is really normal, and if you every time make excuses, then what I wrote above will need to be rewritten every time.
I take this opportunity to apologize on behalf of everyone I'm talking about <3