For some reason, one gets the impression that all these begs are just statements for a set of classes. well, or I don’t want to believe that there are such stupid and arrogant people who can only reproduce without thinking about the material side of the issue
They've already said before me that it's basically a fake, and I'm not going to deny it, but a freebie, in fact, can exist
For example, I saw a couple of times (in those fakes) how asked to give a parody cat / dog, to which, naturally, everyone said that "how is it, pedigree ogogo how much, and give her, damn it, for free." However, often the owner is given expensive breeds for free because of some defects (wrong bite, etc.) literally "defective" for exhibitions and crossbreeding in the future, but it does not matter to children
It is also often given for a penny small appliances such as phones due to some defects, such as a broken screen, a bad camera. In general, everything that is important for adults, but not very important for small people (in an extreme case, a mother will have to get worn out and pay extra for repairs, it will still be cheaper than the average cost of a used one)
Not to mention that in overheard of their city, advertisements of the type "I will give a package of things for a boy of 7 years old, take everything at once" often flash, because selling things one at a time is very long, but it’s so easy to float things that are unnecessary to anyone. concerns groups # yazhmat and the like, it seems to me on the wave of unwillingness to have children (due to the fact that they are nasty little screaming creatures, and not for their own reason), some kind of hatred towards them is born, and accordingly to those who are produced
I think a couple of times, some time ago, the original correspondence of an inadequate parent with some seller got into VK, they picked it up, decided not to stop and continue the topic. Posts there sometimes reach the point of absurdity: the correspondence is stereotyped, as mentioned above, and too monotonous for real; screenshots from moms' publics are selective stuffing (well, seriously, we went overboard to decipher cmd as communists must die), sent by someone for the sake of entertainment (hello bae) and miraculously passed by the moderators (I also had fun, though not in this topic). And each such post is vigorously discussed, re-posted, viewed by a large audience (large publics have already collected more subscribers), probably in the name of good advertising. Well, the blackening of the image of young mothers is already a consequence of this, ugh, "trend". And, well, the answer to the question: they do not count on anything, most likely there are simply no mothers from the screenshots.
Let's talk from a biological and psychological point of view. It will be boring, but quite such a working theory.
A woman is a biological being in herself. For a significant part of her life, she is under the influence of extreme hormonal surges: PMS, menstruation, intoxication during pregnancy. Accordingly, after one of the deepest physiological shocks, pregnancy, for some time the mother is in conditions of psychological and physical stress. This can partially explain the inadequate behavior of some people giving birth.
Now let's hit on psychology. A woman, being in a state of pregnancy, gets used to the increased attention and her importance. It's okay, but people quickly get used to good things. And when the future father first flies around, bringing purple watermelons in winter at three o'clock in the morning, and then requires the fulfillment of some obligations from the object of adoration, dissonance sets in. Think, for example, of yourself at work on the first day after a long vacation. By the way, often men leave a newly-made mother, not because "everyone is a goat", but because often there is a situation when all the warmth and attention goes to the child, and the husband is "bring, buy, let, don't bother us again." But that's another story.
Well, getting used to the fact that everything seems to be due to this lady, the happy owner of "Godasika" (forgive me, Lord) switches to those around who, for some reason, should also be delighted from her "feat", even though it is a normal biological process. Such representatives begin to use their child as a "social ram" (the term was invented personally, all rights reserved :)) Personally, I myself have met those who, as a child, rush forward to an empty seat / out of line and the like. Why then doesn't she get everything for free / for a penny. She has a reason.
Just make a reservation, don't try on my words at all. There are many adequate mothers who love and raise their child. So, be happy that you have a child, and do not fight your way with his head.
You would have sat less in contact. Most of these "mothers", begging for expensive gifts or favors, are a figment of the imagination of the creators of the respective publics. They need to attract them from a group of participants and earn money on advertising - so they are churning out the same type of fake "correspondence".
I agree with the previous answer. Having looked at the groups about #yazhmothers, it is clear that there is a struggle against all mothers and children. Often, jokes slip below the belt (about cannibalism towards children! Yes, there was such a thing). Thus, the society is trying to introduce the idea that children and motherhood are evil. Give birth, become a #mother, and stuff like that. Be people, not a herd.
I absolutely agree with the author. Of course, there are real cases of boorish behavior of a woman with a child who tries to justify herself by its presence or expectation. But this is more the exception than the rule.
First, let's remember who #mothers are.
These are girls or women who position themselves as mothers who love their child so painfully, but in fact only hide behind him. They do not work They often sit on sites where you can buy various gizmos for free or for a symbolic amount.
All conversations with a client can be divided into several stages: 1) greeting
3) begging for a discount (can change places from the 2nd)
I have found dozens of similar correspondences, stories, sayings # yazhmok, as well as their " victims "and became convinced that 90% of them were fake. There is a feeling that they were written by schoolchildren who were not burdened with fantasy.
And I just can't believe that in the 21st century a person will beg for something. or for a chocolate bar. These mothers (like us) grew up in conditions of the principle: "a person is a seller or a buyer." At least most of them do not look like they are from the 19th century, where respect for this population was mean flax above.
If you carefully look at any story, correspondence, story, you can understand that they are built on stereotypes about #mothers. They are written as if they specifically want to denigrate a person.
Today, a real information war is being waged against #mothers. self-esteem of a person will rise (I mean those people who consider any woman with a stroller #yazhmother) who did not hold the door, did not give up his seat, or did not give something for free (he will feel like a fighter for justice who rebuffed the evil tyrant).
Just think about how many subscribers the next blogger will have, who just read the "fake" correspondence and inserted a couple of not very flattering comments in the address #yazhmothers ...