Just like in other places, just as always - not to show emotions, not to share with the whole world what happened, because nothing special happened - in any case, it is better to convince yourself of this right away and in advance. Still, few people are interested in this, except for inveterate gossips, or is perceived as an attempt to cut a dose of compassion and looks humiliating in this regard. I think the last thing is to share your personal life with the Internet. However, I always remove my former friends simply because, according to the results, it turns out that nothing but past feelings connected me, and in my friends I only have people with whom I like and have something to talk about.
So listen to me, I rummage in this like no other. You are the generation of the social network, you think that it is so important what is on the monitor screen, but no, no! This whole game in relation to nothing more than the entertainment of a stupid person, it's all so petty and insignificant that just a cognitive dissonance arises in the head, well, how is it? What is this nonsense ?? One chela's affection for another is nothing more than affection for a stupid dog or cat or whoever you have there, it doesn't matter. Darwin did not build a complex system for this, for future generations, I repeat, all your relationships and other fucking stuff is just a game of cables and bitches. But you! You are something incredible! How to behave on social media after a breakup? Here's your answer: no way! Don't give a fuck? There is another option to leave and not bother with unnecessary things.
The breakup of any relationship, let alone friendly or loving, is always accompanied by sadness. And the behavior in social networks will be such that it will help you to more easily overcome this sadness. Someone needs support and sympathy, someone needs privacy. It is better to contact one of your friends personally for support, because it is difficult to see a request for help behind a friend's public post. And sometimes in social networks it is important to inform a wide range of your friends about your status change. And this is also quite a suitable way. The most important thing is to keep yourself in the sadness. And for this, just a few friends are enough, ready to be with you in this difficult period of life.
If you are a girl, you have 2 options. First: replace joint photos with pictures with sad anonymous beauties hugging emptiness, also the maximum concentration of lyric texts, Asadov, Yesenin or quotes from experienced friends will do. There is a legend about a guy who read a sad status about love, realized everything and returned. Try it. The second way: make it clear as much as possible how cool and fun you are without it, and you don't really need it, complete emancipation and separation. More photos, you need to show that you are well, a lot of fun, smile with force, ooze happiness on Instagram. In each company, choose the most handsome guy and take pictures next to the most mysterious facial expression. There is a legend that one guy saw how cool you were without him and decided to return in order to bring hopelessness and a dull oppressive life into your life and Instagram again. Try it. And don't forget to remove all likes from the scoundrel's photos.
Someone says that you cannot post expressions of feelings on social networks. I believe that it is possible - if it is beautiful. I have seen posts that were really good and lyrical, in the best sense of the word. What they didn’t have was “I’m hard to lose, and impossible to forget,” as well as reproaches. I would like to give a little advice, never show on social networks after breaking up your wounded self-esteem and do not try to raise self-esteem at the expense of the ex - this will only aggravate everything. But if you feel a slight sadness and light longing, it is quite possible to decorate the post artistically, and it will be beautiful. Why not?)
Why would anyone want to show this? Vanilla quotes, sad music streaming on the wall? What is this all for? If this happened, it should remain at least between your friends (who will 100% learn about it from your own lips)
Don't let the angry genie out of the bottle. Do not mention your former passion in vain or using unambiguous phrases. Friends will immediately guess who they are talking about, especially since recently you still published joint photos or kept a profile of this person in the column of marital status. Whist will definitely not add this to you. I do not recommend endowing your posts after a break with a confessional character, poking around in dirty linen. No need to sprinkle the wall with teary quotes from songs like “I remember the time, the time that we have” and so on. Yes, lyrically, sensually, touching, cats scratch their souls. On the other hand, there is no need to “close” at all. And some of your posts, on the contrary, are able to reveal your new qualities to the audience. If you, for example, have listened to hours of songs about lyuboff and suddenly discovered in yourself the gift of a music critic, “pumped up” your musical taste, then you will delight others to a certain extent, regardless of the homely subtext. Deleting pages is generally a step only for emergency situations or in the presence of threats to your address. You're not 15 years old, are you? :)
Better not to discredit your ex. Now it is no longer fashionable, and the meaning of this action is not clear. Better to calm down and accept the situation as it is. There is no need to try to attract the attention of the former, either through jealousy, or through entering the state "I am now a nun, I need nothing from the human world BUT YOU." And never put a status from the series "You left, but I'm so cool that you can't find it better." You better improve yourself.
It all depends on the way in which you broke up. You can part and kindly (though you can). In this case, you do not need to delete from about everywhere from your friends and not put them in black lists. The most, probably, the opposite is the need to remove / change marital status. In this case, I can only advise not to put the joint venture initially.
In general, behaving as usual is the most practical advice in any case of parting. Personally, I am generally against the excessive generosity and frankness of my personal life in social media. networks. The less is exposed, the easier it will be then to pretend that nothing has changed.
And the dramatic deletions of their accounts, then their recovery, sad songs or worse, weekly reports of drunken nights and super fun parties look like sorry, and not only in the eyes of your ex, but all your followers.
Behavior in social networks always depends on personal goal-setting, habitual behavior there. I do not think that anyone has the right to advise you on how to maintain your page: it will cease to reflect your real character, but will turn into a set of distilled "correct" posts. The only advice that everyone should adopt: moderation in the number of daily entries, so as not to clog up dozens of the same type of information in the feed of friends. Otherwise, this is your personal choice.
I think that at least one note should reflect important events in life (a page on a social network should be at least a little like a public diary), and in what form it will be , I do not know. The main thing is to observe moderation in everything.
As an adult - admit that it's over and move on.
Continue posting cute cats, listen to music, add your lost soulmate to the blacklist (if you really want to). You can even block access to this person's page (google about the hosts file).
Do not try to pretend to show that you feel bad or, on the contrary, very good without this person, this is never comme il faut.
Same as usual. Do not forget that social networks are still a public space. It is unlikely that people on your friend list will want to witness your suffering in their feed.
Never, hear, NEVER, fill your wall with sad songs, vanilla quotes and so on.
I don't give a damn what you feel while listening to another sad rap, but don't try to post all this on your own. Remember how wretched and flawed it looks. And then, after a couple of years, flipping through your wall, you will be covered with crimson paint and you will emit either laughs or death sounds.