Instead of asking "How are you?" it is better to ask about how the person spends this evening or how the day went. More leads for conversation are obtained.
Telling what's new, it's obvious.
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Throw off to him the erotica you like (boobs, not porn) from the Internet, of course, not your own picture, this will certainly unleash the conversation 1symbol2symbol
If you write first, just ask yourself why? Then, perhaps, you won't even have to write "hello to case". And if, nevertheless, the desire to take a minute of a person's time prevailed over you, start a dialogue somehow unexpectedly and less trite, for example: "Oh, SpaceX is preparing to launch its last disposable rocket, what do you think about it?" - then the conversation will go by itself and you won't have to puzzle over what to write in the next message. And if the addressee in all seriousness answers something in the spirit of "what, bl ***", then never write to him again - this will certainly save you from even greater disappointments in the future :) But seriously, my subjective opinion is that if there is nothing to say to a person, then it is not worth distracting him from his affairs. But sometimes you really want to do this, then write everything that comes to your mind: if you miss a person, then tell him about it, if you have some crazy question - just ask him. Be yourself and be sincere, then you will not have such questions when communicating with people :)
A real open-ended question. If a guy asks him, it means that he is simply interested in you. The question can be answered as you wish, for this is not a question, but an excuse for a conversation. The questions "What's new?" and "How are you?"
Hmm, no easy task. If you decide to start a conversation with such a stupid phrase, then it will not be easy to rehabilitate. Well, ask, for example, if he likes mackerel ...
Speak the truth. If you wrote to him, then ask things that interest you, or if you just wanted to make an acquaintance, but do not know how to approach, then say so.
Well, if they write to you, it depends on your mood and desire. No means no. If there is a desire, then see the first paragraph - the strategy is the same.
Honesty disposes. Well, you shouldn't forget about politeness either.
Another option is to write something completely detached and / or funny like: advise what to watch / listen / read, rate his photo / post, the main thing is not to forget about a sense of humor: D
Write what the soul requires.
First of all, you need to answer the question, then ask how he is doing.
We must show respect to any person and be polite. But in response, we can show whether we want to continue communication. We answer: "Thank you, I am doing well, I hope you are as well." In this case, we do not wait for an answer, we block the possibility of further conversation and show that we are not in the mood for further dialogue. And if we answer: “Thank you, everything is fine, and how are you?”, In this case we hope to continue the conversation.
Fine, how are you? .