Paul has nothing to do with it, this happens not only when a guy and a girl communicate. The point is the person who loves to chat, and the person to whom everyone is talking about it. It often happens that our opponent begins to tell us something that is not interesting to us, or pours a lot of "water" in his speech, or just speaks a lot and quickly. At such moments, the listener involuntarily "turns off" - he can curl up in the clouds, start thinking "Oh my God, he has such a huge pimple on his forehead" or just go into his own thoughts, and sometimes it is not even on purpose. And believe me, if you talk a lot and quickly, then many will listen to you from time to time "disconnecting", here the talent of the interlocutor is already important to portray the utmost interest in your stories and "turn on" periodically to catch the thought. And returning to the floor - not always these talkers are girls. For example, on the contrary, for the most part I am a listener and often act as a "man" who listens to all this and sometimes "turns off", I also have a boyfriend friend who acts as a "chatting woman". So everything is individual here.
The female gender loves to speak out. A typical picture: you meet a girl, and she begins to tell you what Svetka from the next department wore, how the director looked at her, what interesting shirts she saw in the store, etc. You absolutely don't need this information. But the girl needs to speak out, she is all on emotions. So you listen to all this. And we hear it somehow like this: - Blah-blah-blah-blah-blah-blah-blah-blah .... " So .. Where can I change the tires for summer tires? Damn, I'm still not going to buy disks to rearrange the finished wheels .. " - Blah blah blah blah ... Katya asks me:" You where did you get these shoes? ".. " Kolyan said that someone at his acquaintance bets for half the price .. " - Are you listening to me? - Yes, of course , Katya asked you about the shoes. - Well, and I blah-blah-blah-blah-blah-blah ... "It wouldn't hurt to change the oil." em>