Why, when you whip up a bundle at home after work, it turns out to be naturally beautiful, but if you pay at least a drop of attention before going out - it's pathetic?

Why, when you whip up a bundle at home after work, it turns out to be naturally beautiful, but if you pay at least a drop of attention before going out - it's pathetic?

Home Is Where the Heart Is | Critical Role | Campaign 2, Episode 92

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answers (2)

Answer 1
July, 2021

Another option - perhaps the matter is in Expectations and the difference in Perception.

If you are going somewhere, then the requirements for appearance are high and your Expectations from the done actions with the hairstyle are also overestimated. Accordingly, even if the beam turned out well, it may seem unsuccessful to you. increased Expectations distort reality (your Perception) like a massive black hole.

If you are making a bun just to gather your hair into a comfortable hairstyle, there are no more than Expectations in this case, perhaps even on the contrary, they are understated. Therefore, even if the result is still not bad, your Perception will be completely different.

To soften this contrast without delving into your own head, you can simply "evaluate" several times: did your hair - looked (did not like it) - took a break (drank tea and coffee, read the Internet) - appreciated again.

If you don't like everything the second time, it's probably better to redo it))

Answer 2
July, 2021

Perhaps the fact is that true creativity and perfection, which produces natural beauty, is an untrained skill and not a conscious concentration on action, but a thoughtless spontaneity of action. Thoughtlessness not in the sense of stupidity, but the absence of unnecessary thoughts, fears about how is right, how wrong, how it will look, who will think what, etc. etc.

The intention to make beautiful, fears and thoughts about this constraint your natural creativity to make beautiful.

If you are at home, you are natural, you are safe, you are not in danger, no one will see you and will not be able to negatively evaluate defects in your hairstyle. In such a safe environment, your natural ability, without fear and any psychological obstacles in the form of conscious attention, manifests itself freely and easily, and thus, effortlessly produces natural beauty.

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